Is it normal for men to masturbate after marriage?

　　Due to different physiological structures, male From the age of seventeen to nineteen, the energy is at its strongest and the sexual impulse is very strong. At that stage, most men have become accustomed to masturbating to express themselves, and it has gradually become one of their ways to balance their minds when facing stress or anxiety.

　　Many men still cannot change their masturbation habit after marriage, which makes female The compatriots were puzzled. Don't think that "self-comfort" is only a behavior that occurs when you are seventeen years old. In fact, even adult men with a satisfactory sex life still have the urge to masturbate occasionally.

　　A netizen asked: My husband and I have been married for two years, and our sex life has always been harmonious. He has never said he is dissatisfied. But recently, I discovered that my husband has a habit of masturbating. Sometimes when I fall asleep at night, he will secretly "exercise" next to me. I am very troubled by this and worry that my husband has sexual problems. What should I do?

　　After getting married, many wives are confused like this reader. When they see their husbands masturbating, they will be surprised, confused, and even doubt that they can satisfy their husbands' sexual needs. In fact, 75.6% of adult men still masturbate after marriage. Of course, most of them do it occasionally, and a small number of them masturbate frequently.

　　Most women's first reaction when they find their husband masturbating is surprise. Women who are less confident may worry, “Am I no longer attractive to him? ”“Doesn't he love me anymore? ”“Can't I satisfy him? ”……Similar doubts gradually formed a huge pressure. Some women will also blame themselves deeply for this, thinking that they have not fulfilled their responsibilities as wives.

　　Ziyun woke up one night to go to the bathroom and heard her husband moaning while masturbating inside. She was confused, surprised, and self-blame all night long, and her emotions were ups and downs. Although she knew that her husband would lie down next to her after finishing his work, she was not sure whether his heart was still with her? Yulian's husband, who works as a ground handler for an airline, is an energetic person with frequent demands. However, because she works three shifts, she has to come home late one day every few days. Sometimes when I get home early in the morning, I find that my husband can't wait for her to come back and solves the problem by himself. I feel sad and angry at the same time. Chu Song, who is extremely energetic, often wants to change positions after doing it once, but he can't bear to wake up the person who has entered. Dream The rural wife had no choice but to do it herself!

　　From a woman's point of view, it seems that men who are happily married and have a satisfying sex life should not have thoughts or actions about masturbation. But from a male's point of view, masturbation is not something to make a fuss about. For example, when a wife is pregnant and close to the delivery period, she cannot consummate the marriage for several months. If she does not solve the problem on her own, she may have an affair.

　　For men, masturbation can be a comfortable and convenient way to vent some of the things that have been accumulated in their hearts. Making love is a relatively interactive activity that requires cooperation, and its purposes are also diverse, ranging from self-satisfaction, pleasing the other person, to continuing the family line. Unlike masturbation, the purpose is direct and single, just to vent.

　　If you masturbate after marriage, first of all, your sexual desire is not satisfied. Regardless of whether they are men or women, those who have masturbated before marriage and can reach orgasm will naturally think of masturbating to solve the problem if their sexual desire cannot be satisfied after marriage. Because the world there is broader, freer, and more exciting, and you can always find new and exciting elements. If you can't grasp it, you will become addicted to it and cannot extricate yourself, thus affecting the normal life of a couple.

　　Secondly, some men masturbate to reduce stress, balance their psychology, and adjust their mood. Finally, if a couple has an emotional dispute over something else, one partner may masturbate to punish the other.

　　When a wife discovers that her husband is masturbating, she does not need to intervene too much, nor does she need to doubt or blame herself. Instead, she should communicate with him at the appropriate time. You can even help him masturbate.

　　Women also masturbate after marriage, mostly after two or three years of marriage. If a husband finds his wife masturbating, the best attitude is to allow her to retain some "position" as long as it does not affect the normal sexual life of the couple.